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Single Friends


Single Friends
- Do

Do invite them to couple’s parties (it’s about friendships with people not couples).
Do find time to hangout with them without your spouse coming along every time.
Do let them tell their single dating horror stories over and over (they will eventually end).
Do lend your shoulder when they need to cry.
Do reinforce all the great things going on in their life.
Do remind them that if they really want to find someone they will!
Do be open about your own relationship (the ups and downs).
Do point out what’s great about being single.

Single Friends – Don’t

Don’t try and set them up after a recent breakup.
Don’t glorify relationships.
Don’t try and set them up with every single person you know.
Don’t refer to them as your single friend.
Don’t pity them for being single, they could actually be happy!
Don’t not invite them to your children’s activities and parties just because they don’t have kids.
Don’t let them have too many pity parties.

Comments

sunbow2
Since: Nov 6, 2008
Nov 11, 2008, 3:16 pm
I was single for 6 years! I had an on off boyfriend but it was always so hard to go to gatherings with other couples. I guess I just needed to be more secure but I tried to avoid a lot of events. Be extra considerate of your single friends, plan non couple fun things to do as well (if you are in a relationship that is)
samo1
Since: Nov 23, 2008
Nov 23, 2008, 5:14 pm
don't judge them for thinking they are in love after one date with someone, it might actually work out!
gracious
Since: Nov 20, 2008
Dec 1, 2008, 11:02 am
I have learned my lesson! Don't eve set up two people who are really good friends. If it does end, it always ends badly, and then you get stuck in the middle, and usually end up losing one of the two friends.
steffieleigh
Since: Dec 22, 2008
Dec 22, 2008, 10:57 am
This is really helpful, I'm single and I've noticed that my friendships with my now married friends has either changed or is non-existent because they got married, not all their fault or my fault, but just because it seems to happen and neither one of us knows how to act around each other, so this is really good advice.

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